Crazy Bout Me

                        
     Narcissism is the pursuit of gratification from vanity or egotistic admiration of one's own attribute.
The term originated from Greek mythology where Narcissus fell in love with his reflection in a pool of water. Narcissism is not same as egocentrism.
Healthy narcissism is the characteristic of possessing self-esteem without being cut off from a shared emotional life as unhealthy narcissist tend to be.You can only be an unhealthy narcissist if you do not relate well with others but yourself.
The unhealthy narcissist tend to masturbate excessively, because they become their own sex object as  said by Havelock Ellis.
Narcissism is vanity and self admiration as said by Otto Rank.
Well, I'm going to be a bit petty to all those who have a problem with my self-love or maybe self-love in general, I mean, if you hate yourself that's fine, but don't come trying to spread you self hate to me, trying to down me to the level you have downed yourself. I mean God got me and i don't see myself any lower that that high pedestal I have put myself on. Growing up i have learned self confidence is key to a lot of things. I had a falling once, when my beautiful skin got invaded by chicken pox, you know even with the pox i kind of still loved the pale but glowing look it gave my skin and i was devastated by the spots and scars it left me, I cried for days and promised myself never to show my skin or step out without  being fully covered regardless of the weather condition, I had my best buddy tell me to get all that idea ot of my head, it took a while but, I got crazy in love with myself again, I show off my skin if i want to because it's my skin and i love it and i don't see any flaws in my flaws because they are what make me me. Everyday when i wake up and i look in the mirror and see myself and i'm like "Damn Girl you fine!" no one ca tell me otherwise and i can't help but praise Jehovah because he has blessed me bountifully. I look at myself and try to find a wrong but I just can't and I'm sorry for you, I'm really sorry you cannot appreciate yourself the way I can.
Really I feel for you, I'm sorry. But it isn't on anyone but yourself.
                                             
                                  Signs You A Narcissist 

• You like to talk about yourself. 
• You do whatever you want, whenever you want.
• You hate being turned down, things not going your way. You hate the word 'No' being told to  you.
• You like to flirt for the fun of it. Flirting doesn't mean they actually like you, they flirt to feel their power. 
• You question other people's intelligence. 
• You ever hardly admit or accept your mistake. 
• You take tons of selfies.
• You thirst for interpersonal exploitation. 
• You don't outgrow you childhood aggression. 
• You hate being insulted in any way. 
• You have a sadistic sense of pleasure in  someone else's pain. 
• You like to be the center of attention.
• You have insatiable sense of competitiveness due to envy. 
• You stir chaos. Sabotage friendships or relationships. 
• You have obsession with your appearance. 
• You engage in emotional or physical infidelity to intentionally bother your partner.   

                                       Not all signs are a characteristic and not all signs make you a narcissist.                                              
A narcissists greatest fear is a person that they cannot control.

Some children are lucky enough to have parents who find the sweet spot between too little and too much praise.  They begin life with a modestly positive self-image which they can then carry over into their adolescence, a time that can challenge even the most robust self-esteem. When they enter their 20s, or what psychologists call emerging adulthood, this healthy foundation to their personality can help young people continue to adapt positively to life. The odds are, too, that even a highly narcissistic adolescent will become a less self-aggrandizing adult. 

People who don't have self love have low self esteem. They don't feel pretty because they can't take proper care of themselves. They see the bad side of themselves. 

When a narcissist says "I love you." they are using you to love themselves more. It's like a channel to boost their ego. They have you as some kind of property they own, you are like their object of possession. This doesn't necessarily mean they don't love you, it just means, you add more to their pride. Also, whatever you say they remember, when they are most vulnerable, they use it against you. 

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