Accepting The Homosexuals

A lot of people are homophobic and quite disgusted at the thought of people of the same sex doing deeds of heterosexuals.
We should respect people's decisions and try to stop being judgmental, in other words, Mind your business. Guys are attracted to lesbians but are irritated by gays.... I mean does this really make sense? What's the difference? I asked a friend of mine who is attracted to his sex, "As a homosexual person, what do you have to say to people who do not understand your preference?"
He replied, "I want to say it's none of their business and i'm just like everyone else. I'm a normal person and the only difference is that i like men."
He truly is just a normal person. I speak with him most of the time, he has real feelings but they are just not directed at the opposite sex, they feel everything we feel, they want love as well, it's really not a big deal if people can just stick their noses out of everyone's business and not try to mold everyone, I mean I've seen  a few times in the media Animals of the same sex mating, what if it's just natural for them, fine we know about Sodom and Gomora in the bible, but seriously the judgment isn't for you to make. Sin is a matter if the heart, how good or bad you are, your intentions, so your judging them is also making you a sinner, isn't that right?
Among religious groups, substantial majorities of the religiously unaffiliated (79%), white Catholics (66%) and white mainline Protestants (65%) say that homosexuality should be accepted. However, just 29% of white evangelical Protestants agree, while more than twice as many (63%) say homosexuality should be discouraged by society.
Homosexuals should be respected as every other normal person regardless of if you view them as immoral. They have a right to live, Human rights and this is how they have chosen to live. Do you know some people are born this way? Without no peer pressure or imitation. Attraction is a pull! Think of it as a magnet, one side attracts another repels, Men they are attrcated to, Women they repel. Even Pope Francis says Christians should apologize to gays because they should be respected and not discriminated. We all have more to us than our sexual orientations and behaviors. Government shouldn't mandate who they choose to love either! Freedom! Human Right! have they been forgotten?
If love is legal, why isn't gay marriage?