Attracting The Ladies

So a lot of guys have problems communicating with the opposite sex, but it's really not so hard. 

First, what is attraction?

Attraction is the power of invoking interest or liking in someone. It is when someone meets your sense of appeal. 

Now, a lot of ladies have attitude problems or just aren't ready for a relationship, if you start thinking of what you are going to say to this lady, she would think oh maybe he isn't really interested, so instead of focusing on what to think of next, focus on her and just let it flow instead of being distracted by your thoughts.

Think of things you can talk about with her before actually engaging in a conversation with her, ask questions that would most definitely need a reply, not questions that require a yes or no reply, making the conversation die awkwardly. 

Ladies focus more on your body language than what you actually have to say, so be yourself. You can't just walk up to me and ask for my digits, I mean why would i give it to you? Before asking a lady for her digits or for her time then there has to be a connection first. What would make her give you the time of the day depends on your body language. A lady would let down her guard if you are being honest, if you are really interested and if you are relaxed. 

Before jumping in a relationship, be just friends first, get to know her and let her get to know you, so you don't end up in another time and energy wasting relationship. Don't try to find a compatible partner in a club or bar! I mean...what?! 

Don't jump into conclusions on her relationship status. If you want to know meet her, ask! Some ladies are nasty rude, true! Don't lower yourself because you feel she is out of your league, you never know what the tides of life may drag in. 

Don't start thinking about if she likes you or not, it is very unattractive and you are fueling her power. Honestly, lol, you are. I'm so sorry to all my ladies out there. But they need to know, they have suffered a lot in our hands. 

Okay guys, seriously you need to be a lot more enthusiastic. Don't just be like, "Hi" and expect a flawless convo to unfold itself. Don't go forcing conversations either, one-liners are good but overdoing it with corny lines and stuff, you honestly just start to look stupid. It's a major turn off! Tell her cool, interesting stories, let her pipe in, let her take over the conversation if she wants. 

Don't be an asshole.

Listening to her rants  creates a warmer and happier relationship.