It's No Big Deal To Chat Him Up!

Deciding to talk to a guy because you have interest in him doesn't make you cheap and does't make you a slut! We live in a society that loves to shame, but mostly we should live for ourselves and not for the world. There is nothing wrong in liking a guy and wanting him to notice you. Yes it is actually kind of difficult to do.

It's scary to talk with your crush, intimidating even, this may not apply to all girls as there are some really carefree ones. But for the other majority, think of what you are going to say to him, think how how to start a conversation. Now don't go reciting to him like it's a Hearing. just have an idea of what to say.

Start small. Complement him, make an observation, ask questions, approach him when he is less busy and alone. Conversations have a natural beginning and end, notice is body language, if he doesn't seem into the conversation anymore, it's time to wrap it up. This doesn't conclude the fact that he isn't interested, he may just be exhausted.

Try to communicate with him regularly because you want to be around him and get to know him, don't just ask him questions about himself, let him get to know you as well, find out interests you both have in common and keep the conversation rolling. Be yourself. Honestly there is no need to try to be some thing you aren't. If he doesn't like you for who you are, if he can't accept you, then let him go! He isn't for you. Just let him go! if you apparently later get his number, text him regularly, let him get used to you, now... don't go spamming him like a thirsty chic! Hell no! You would create a monster with your own hands. Answer any of his questions honestly, don't overdo the emojis, come off flirty once in a while, a little hint, here and there. Let him initiate chatting you up sometimes, like i said you do not want to create a monster. 

Get your flirt on sister!

Throw him smiles when your eyes meet, try to engage  eye contact with him, maintain physical contact; touch him and take your hands off like it never happened. It's kind of just to let him know that you are interested. Don't introduce yourself to him as insecure, don't put yourself down, don't bad talk his friends or relatives, keep it to yourself.

Before asking him out, make sure he is actually interested in you that way, don't go looking foolish. 

You would know if he's interested through his body language, if he makes excuses to touch you. There are actually some guys who are really flirty and stuff with everyone, you would know if this type of guy likes you because he would react differently with you, behave differently.

These don't compulsorily mean he wants you as more than a friend, it means he's attracted. 

Be straightforward, tell him, "Hey Richard, I like you as more than a friend, i want to know if you feel the same way."

Simple, no big deal. No big deal as well to text or call him and say, "Want to see a movie with me tomorrow?" 

If he doesn't like you that way, accept the rejection, not everyone you like has to like you back, don't question him, don't get mad. Just tell him, "No problem, see you around." Find someone to vent out  your disappointment with. Make a better version of yourself and step out of the wake of disappointment.