THE GOLDEN RULES FOR MEN

At the age of Eighteen, you should stop viewing yourself as a boy or as a guy. Male Humans have more responsibilities to cover than females, because they are the Dominant figure. At age Eighteen you should already be thinking of life changing plans, this is the maturity stage. 

Here are 44 Rules serving as a Guidestep to  being a man: 

1) Reflect on your past and compare with your present. Is there an improvement ? What do you need to change ? 

2) Never cancel a date with a text! You can’t make it to a date? Change of plans or mind ? Call!

3) Believe in yourself. Do not be discouraged by those who do not believe in you. 

4) Do not soil your name in the mud. As a man, you should carry your name with pride, with stealth.

5) Make plans, approach life statistically like a game of football/Basketball/Chess. Always view probabilities, what are your chances? 

6) No matter how grown you are, always appreciate your parents.

7) Take time out of each day to just sit back and relax. Overworking the brain or body system is not healthy.

8) Forgive those who have wronged you but never forget what they did. Avoid becoming a fool.

9) A man should have a composed behavior. Be comported! Attracting unnecessary audience is a female trait. Please my man, do not ever make a scene!!!!

10) Dress to be adressed, always look neat and smart. You want to be an Eye Candy dont You? Appearance matters, appearance is key! To the Beard Gang men, please groom properly, if you cannot afford to do so then please shave it off! You can’t approach a Lady looking so unkempt, looking ill-living, take time to Groom yourself. We do check you guys out and gossip. 

11) Avoid offensive stench oozing off of you. Eww, body odor is a no-no! Shave those pubic hairs if need be, wear cologne, but not too much it becomes air-freshener.

12) Always have money on you ! Seriously ? What sort of guy walks about cashless? Boy bye! 

13) Don’t stare like a pervert, don’t stare too much at people. 

14) Take pictures enough to be noticed, enough for ladies to fan girl about. Don’t over do it by being too camera loving and obsessed with yourself. It’s a complete turn off. 

15) Stand up for yourself at all times, Do Not become a push over. 

16) Accept you made a mistake and move on! 

17) Never make a promise and then break the promise. 

18) Have a good sense of humor. As witty as we ladies want guys, we want a comedian as well. Not so much you just start looking stupid. 

19) When you marry a lady, you marry her family as well.  Take note! Especially in Africa. 

20) Don't be too egocentric and refuse help or refuse to seek help when you are in need of help. 

21) Buy her dinner even if she doesn’t ask. 

22) Be kind.

23) Have goals, have priorities.

24) How handy are you in the kitchen? Ladies love seeing their man busting his behind around in the kitchen once in a while. 

25) Self-Obsession? Uh no! No! 

26) You should be able to pull off Co-operate Outfits and Kick-Back outfits. Go from Idris Elba to Odell Beckham Jr. Walk on a fashion tightrope. 

27) Get your competitive spirit on  with sports and games. It keeps your mind active and it is the male relaxation therapy. 

28) Don’t date your friend’s ex or sister no matter how seductive she may appear, no matter how attracted you are to her. Keep the Bro Code active. 

29) Wear vests if your perspire a lot, no one wants to see the sweat marks on your shirt. 

30) Don’t be a drunk.

31) You doubt she likes you? Kiss her and find out! Don’t rape her face, just that ‘testing the waters’ kiss. The reaction you get is your answer.

32) Don’t obsess over your phone. 

33) Stay fit. Stay healthy. Exercise regularly. 

34) Take selfies with worthy companions to have a trip down memory lane later in future.

35) One girl is enough for you to date. Don’t cheat and play girls like cards.

36) Keep your Tie properly. Roll it and keep in a drawer once unknotted. 

37) It is kind of misunderstood, men’s clothing does not have to match, it just had to be a perfect combination. Let it cause a Boom in her ovaries! 

38) Don’t waste your time and energy being angry, Chanel it into something productive. 

39) If she expects you to be who you are 20% of the time, 100% of the time, then keep looking for ‘The one’ she isn’t for you. 

40) You attending an event or a ceremony ? Hold a bottle of Wine or Champagne. 

41) Date women outside your social circle. 

42) No one cares if you are hurt, suck it up! Be a man, grow up! 

43) Don’t waste money on gambling. 

44) Rules are for the obedience of fools and the guidance of wise men