Flirtationships And Friends With Benefits
Yes, Flirtashionship is a thing, it's more than friendship less than a relationship. It's flirting with a member of the opposite sex you are attracted to but you are nothing more than friends, it's fun and silly, it gets awkward real quick as well. So flirtationship is having fun and flirting with the same person of the opposite sex without claims of the person; like a title. Regardless that you are romantically involved. Sometimes flirtationship leads to a relationship, sometimes it doesn't, most times when it doesn't, it gets awkward and weird to relapse back as friends.
It gets emotionally complicated, but it's really less stressful than an actual relationship, in my opinion i think it's nice, there's no real commitment involved and you can go on dates without necessarily cheating except you and your fun-friend have come to some sort of agreement on those terms. It's kind of like friends with benefits but more like a relationship with less obligations; no need for dates,meeting of parents, overspending. Flirtationship is like gambling, you can risk your friendship or become a real couple. It becomes an issue when one person develops more feelings than the other, someone is bound to get hurt, the rules would change. Yes unlike FWB, Flirtationships deals with actual feelings for one another just the lack of wanting to be committed in a relationship. We can call it The Excitation State.
Like, if a guy asks you out, your fun-friend would get jealous and vice versa because there are actually genuine feelings involved. Jealousy is the number one cause of destruction of a , nobody really likes sharing who they are involved with, despite the complication of this type of relationship, the best relationships emerge from this, mainly because the best relationships start off with friendship.. Set boundaries of not getting to emotionally involved, mirror the other's movement only then can you know it's safe to take the next step. You can flirt with other people in a flirtationship just make sure you aren't hurting the other person or yourself.,
Friends with Benefits are more sustainable relationships it's basically fuck buddies, having sex with the same person without emotional attachment, it's like in-between lovers and strangers, it's having sex with a friend you completely have no feelings for, this is what makes it different from a Flirtationship, in Flirtationships there's feelings and no compulsory sex, Friends with Benefits is about sex. You like each other (friends way) and both like to have sex, so you go for it. Your fucck buddy relationship is about the hot sex, after cuddles, the secrets, it doesn't involve commitment like stuffs like Flirtationships. The coolest thing about fuck buddies is probably because the female would enjoy the benefit of casual sex instead of that traditional 'Get Married First' they always get told. It embraces female sexual autonomy, it gives a chance to explore yourself and other people. It doesn't make you a slut. It's between you and him not you and him and others. Who or what is society? Do whatever pleases you, if you aren't ready to take that next step into a real relationship but you want the benefits of a relationship, rather than fuck buddies go for a flirtationship.
It may be hard to get out of one when you have developed feeling. Don't confuse your mind for the heart, the heart doesn't operate feelings, the mind does. When you think omg! He is cute, your heart then races, your heart acts out the mind. The heart is temporary pleasures in life and it will confuse you on what to decide.
Example: A smoker refuses to stop smoking even though he knows it is wrong. This is because he is using his heart not his Mind. The heart runs on past experiences, not care not love. It's like 'Oh I ate pizza today I loved it, I don't have money but I'll buy it tomorrow,Tunde will buy it."
It is kind of advisable to think with the heart than the mind. The mind creates an analytic thinker or emotional thinker. The emotional thinker is much better. They follow their guts and conscience, Analytic thinker follow what they read and research on and start analyzing.
It gets emotionally complicated, but it's really less stressful than an actual relationship, in my opinion i think it's nice, there's no real commitment involved and you can go on dates without necessarily cheating except you and your fun-friend have come to some sort of agreement on those terms. It's kind of like friends with benefits but more like a relationship with less obligations; no need for dates,meeting of parents, overspending. Flirtationship is like gambling, you can risk your friendship or become a real couple. It becomes an issue when one person develops more feelings than the other, someone is bound to get hurt, the rules would change. Yes unlike FWB, Flirtationships deals with actual feelings for one another just the lack of wanting to be committed in a relationship. We can call it The Excitation State.
Like, if a guy asks you out, your fun-friend would get jealous and vice versa because there are actually genuine feelings involved. Jealousy is the number one cause of destruction of a , nobody really likes sharing who they are involved with, despite the complication of this type of relationship, the best relationships emerge from this, mainly because the best relationships start off with friendship.. Set boundaries of not getting to emotionally involved, mirror the other's movement only then can you know it's safe to take the next step. You can flirt with other people in a flirtationship just make sure you aren't hurting the other person or yourself.,
Friends with Benefits are more sustainable relationships it's basically fuck buddies, having sex with the same person without emotional attachment, it's like in-between lovers and strangers, it's having sex with a friend you completely have no feelings for, this is what makes it different from a Flirtationship, in Flirtationships there's feelings and no compulsory sex, Friends with Benefits is about sex. You like each other (friends way) and both like to have sex, so you go for it. Your fucck buddy relationship is about the hot sex, after cuddles, the secrets, it doesn't involve commitment like stuffs like Flirtationships. The coolest thing about fuck buddies is probably because the female would enjoy the benefit of casual sex instead of that traditional 'Get Married First' they always get told. It embraces female sexual autonomy, it gives a chance to explore yourself and other people. It doesn't make you a slut. It's between you and him not you and him and others. Who or what is society? Do whatever pleases you, if you aren't ready to take that next step into a real relationship but you want the benefits of a relationship, rather than fuck buddies go for a flirtationship.It may be hard to get out of one when you have developed feeling. Don't confuse your mind for the heart, the heart doesn't operate feelings, the mind does. When you think omg! He is cute, your heart then races, your heart acts out the mind. The heart is temporary pleasures in life and it will confuse you on what to decide.
Example: A smoker refuses to stop smoking even though he knows it is wrong. This is because he is using his heart not his Mind. The heart runs on past experiences, not care not love. It's like 'Oh I ate pizza today I loved it, I don't have money but I'll buy it tomorrow,Tunde will buy it."
It is kind of advisable to think with the heart than the mind. The mind creates an analytic thinker or emotional thinker. The emotional thinker is much better. They follow their guts and conscience, Analytic thinker follow what they read and research on and start analyzing.
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