Relationship For Sportmanship

   Not every relationship is built on love, some relationships are just to keep scores on the SQUAD SCOREBOOK, some relationships are built on infatuation, some relationships are built on resentment.

Sometimes people get into relationships just to be seen, to stay on their A Game, to be the Guy, eventually it does come to bite them in the butt, I mean.... Karma is a Bitch. 
If a girl isn't into you, she just wants to mess with your head, use you as her handbag or Money Machine well here's how to find out.

  • She always want an alone time, hardly wants to be around you. She ignores you.
  • She doesn't let you meet her friends not even the close ones except of course they all in on it.
  • She treats you just like every other guy in her life.
  • She's confused about your relationship status, isn't sure what is going on between the two of you and she won't clarify it, she ignores it when it comes up. 
  • She makes out with you mostly when she feels like.
  • She talks about her past relationships alot. 
  • She dominates he relationship.
  • Doesn't pay attention to you, but wants your attention. 
  • She is in another relationship.
  • She doesn't put down her phone. 
  • Her friends love attention. 
We live in a Generation where love is old school. Where Flirtationships and Friends with Benefits  is the real deal. Really this is stupid in another light as well it really isn't. Sometimes most people aren't ready for relationships, but they want to feel that connection, they want to have a person they can pour out their day to, their situations, make out with, have sex with, with no strings. Later on we would talk about such relationships. The main thing in this sort of relationships is that it has to be consensual. Not something only one person has in mind.
So let's find out how to know when a guy is using you for pleasure, money or scoreboard.

  • He avoids talks about commitment.
  • Your friends give you pointers that he's playing you. Trust girlfriends to look out for you, guys can really be deceiving bastards even the most innocent looking of them all. 
  • Intimacy isn't a two-way street, he focuses more on pleasing himself.
  • He asks for favors, you give him money all the time. 
  • He's not romantic.
  • He ignores you, talks to you when he feels like. 
  • He doesn't really care about your feelings. 
  • You don't really know much about him. 
  • He doesn't take you out. 
  • He doesn't have the nicest reputation.
  • You aren't his only lover. Trust your instincts, and if they tell you he has someone else then he does. 
  • He's quick to say 'I love you.' The sacred statement. 
  • He's always all over you, touching you. 
  • He makes you feel guilt or shame. 
  • He doesn't have self-love.
Girls are complicated when it comes to love, they get confused. But to keep a girl ad make her fall in love you have to understand her.
We are not toys for you to play with, we are not for your entertainment, treat a woman how you want your daughter or mother treated. A woman is a loving creature, a woman would only turn player or cold-hearted after being hurt by a man she loved or loves who is or was only playing with her emotions. You seem to not understand but this thing really does kill slowly.
Toy with my emotions and I simply send the same love to your daughter. No qualms. Whatever you sow you shall reap.
Relationships aren't made to brag to friends about how good she/he is or who you doing next... It isn't made for dares and infatuations, it isn't made games or self-clarification nor guilt or any of that shit you all bring to th table, NO!
Relationship is built on care and love!
So please stop Relationship for Sportmanship, because honestly if girls decide it's payback time, you would be crushed. We are naturally evil honestly, we would deal with you in a way you ain't ever going to forget.
We just love too much we really don't want to hurt you. Yes, I'm focusing on guys because they create Monster females that hurt innocent guys who in turn hurt innocent girls, it's cycle and guys rolled the wheel.

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