I Am My Own Compétition
Good Day,
It’s an everyday thing for people to compete against the next person trying to outdo another, in some cases it is the influence of adults or peers nagging at you to beat that person, the thing is... that other person you are trying to beat is doing their own thing, just trying to make it work for his/her self, that other person may also be in your situation being pressured to do whatever it takes to outshine others, beating others doesn’t guarantee your success in life, being true to yourself, pushing your interests forward, fixing that I can achieve this in your mind is what would lead you to your success, competing with someone else can lead you astray because in the spirit of competition you may lose yourself, lose your identity.
Possibly, maybe you havé the same dream or same passion with who you are competing against, don’t beat yourself up, don’t think of the downsides or the other person, focus instead on the task at hand, dare yourself, know your weak points, know your strong points, know yourself. Once you know yourself, you develop a good or a better self esteem, you can ride on your self-confidence, you don’t have to worry about the next person because for all you know, that person is probably a secret admirer.
"Can i do it?" I think to myself, staring at this mind meddling puzzle.
"I can do it!" I think to myself, then start with analytical planning.
Nobody is Better than You! You are thé best version of yourself if you try. The only person you should compete against is you! In everything you do... at work, don’t think of what that *Hot Shot Colleague* is going to present, at school, don’t think of what that *top grade student* is going to score, in a relationship, don’t let anyone other that siblings or mother have more of his/her attention, in friendship, don’t let the appearance or lifestyle of the other intimidate you. The minute you do is the minute they are the boss of you.
Be your own person and keep besting yourself.
It’s an everyday thing for people to compete against the next person trying to outdo another, in some cases it is the influence of adults or peers nagging at you to beat that person, the thing is... that other person you are trying to beat is doing their own thing, just trying to make it work for his/her self, that other person may also be in your situation being pressured to do whatever it takes to outshine others, beating others doesn’t guarantee your success in life, being true to yourself, pushing your interests forward, fixing that I can achieve this in your mind is what would lead you to your success, competing with someone else can lead you astray because in the spirit of competition you may lose yourself, lose your identity.
Possibly, maybe you havé the same dream or same passion with who you are competing against, don’t beat yourself up, don’t think of the downsides or the other person, focus instead on the task at hand, dare yourself, know your weak points, know your strong points, know yourself. Once you know yourself, you develop a good or a better self esteem, you can ride on your self-confidence, you don’t have to worry about the next person because for all you know, that person is probably a secret admirer.
"Can i do it?" I think to myself, staring at this mind meddling puzzle.
"I can do it!" I think to myself, then start with analytical planning.
Nobody is Better than You! You are thé best version of yourself if you try. The only person you should compete against is you! In everything you do... at work, don’t think of what that *Hot Shot Colleague* is going to present, at school, don’t think of what that *top grade student* is going to score, in a relationship, don’t let anyone other that siblings or mother have more of his/her attention, in friendship, don’t let the appearance or lifestyle of the other intimidate you. The minute you do is the minute they are the boss of you.
Be your own person and keep besting yourself.
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