CORRECT THE CORRECT

 No doubt there are successful females and we all aspire to be one, but we females have a pride that I myself a guilty of. We would rather we gain from a man, hang out with a man than our own species, when we do hang out with people of our gender, we want them to see how well we are, so we put more effort into how we appear instead of just having a regular laid back look, we go for the 'I'm killing it Sistah!' look. We want to intimidate, we want to press an impression, it may be an unconscious act, it may not be, but men, men directly approach the other to learn, they come out laid back to be less intimidating, sit together, have fun and then bring up a topic or ask a question. Much ladies don't have this habit, they want to think like a man but you cannot think like a man if you don't enter the circle of a man and like a man. As a woman, you can never fully act like a man, because we have the domestic jobs to attend to, we have the cultural act to appeal, we can only push forward to achieve what we want, we can put behind that, 'I'm a woman.' mentality  and become a successful human. We all want to be rich, we all want money, but honestly do you want to have more money than your husband?
Personally, I don't. I want to be rich enough to support my family, I also want him richer than I am, because if you possess more than your husband then your respect for him would be questionable or non-existent, which is right, biblicaly and culturally. That sort of relationship isn't healthy. If you happen to then posses more than him, that's okay, that's fair, but give him the respect he deserves as the man of the house. He still is the man!

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