How You Fail As A Man
As a guy even if you are really interested in a lady you shouldn’t show too much interest, no matter how attracted you are to her, the minute you show all of your interest without her doing anything to impress or please you she views you as desperate and when a lady views you as desperate it equates to you are out of her league. In order to earn her respect, show enough interest but not too much, just the right amount for her to try to impress you. Besides the more you know about her and the more she is willing to gain your attention shows if she really is your kind of woman.
Don’t be too nice. Yes! Women like nice guys but we not talking nice like... repeating how sorry you are about something 24/7 or paying for everything she gets. What we mean by nice guy is
- A confident guy
- A guy that emits a sexual aura and flirts.
- Brings out her feminity with his masculinity.
- A guy that has a sexy and attractive sense of humor.
- A guy that is respected by his peers.
Don’t approach women that you know you have no chance with i.e women that you aren’t really attracted to or women that already have a lover.
Most times, guys go for women they don’t find attractive or they aren’t attracted to because they feel they have more chances with them or they are to scared to approach the woman they really like, because they are not sure of what to say or how to keep the conversation going, because they are scared of rejection or don’t know how to keep her engaged.
Well... if you fall in this category then you can keep sitting on the curb or gather the courage and become a real man!
There must be sexual tension between you and a woman! It is a compulsion, creating sexual tension doesn’t make you a sleaze, doesn’t make you a bad person, making action that isn’t welcomed does. If she doesn’t feel comfortable with that air then air it out. All women choose their guys on sexual desire, so there’s nothing like my girl is too conservative or the girl I like is too conservative, she sticks around you for a reason, women want some sexual attention as much as guys, women just go a different way about it, they are more subtle. They want to see how far you can go, how good you can lure them out of their shells. Most times guys fail and women don’t bother to say anything about it because that is where they have failed as a man.
As a guy, you should be open to talk to single women, there are a lot of women and you could be what one of the them is searching for. Just be easy going and be yourself, always express yourself, talk a lot but not too much, always carry her along and make sure you make her smile and laugh a lot even in a five minutes conversation.
If a lady is losing interest in a conversation with you, if she isn’t having the same vibe as you, it doesn’t call for you to give up, people who are successful didn’t make it in life by giving up, they made it in life by putting in more work to achieve their aim. The moment you give up, is the moment you have failed as a man.
You have to face your problem with women, why can’t you get the lady you like? Why are you still lonely while your friends are all engaged in a relationship? It’s not because of your work schedule or your height or your body or any of the flimsy excuse you have made up in your head, it’s because of you and your insecurities. It’s because you haven’t developed the skill of talking to women or interacting with women.
If you lack confidence you can’t get a proper lady, ladies love men that radiate confidence! You would naturally attract women just by walking pass them with confidence, the question now is can you speak to them with that much confidence?
Most importantly if you’ve been hurt in the past by a woman you loved and you still live in that shadow, move on or it would be toxic to your new relationship or to your game play.
Now you know how you fail as a man, what are you going to do about it.
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