NOT A SOCIETAL DOLL

I Refuse To Be Silenced

There are quite a number of people who stick to the charts, follow the trends even the voices of other people, it’s sickening to think that at a mature age, you cannot own up to who you are, you cannot use your chest to be yourself, you are mute, cheering on the Spokesman on the sideline. On the internet there are different types of people, the ones who crowd the streets of twitter and Instagram running people down with their words, trying to share their negativity to a vibrant soul, forcing their ideology unto the weak minded. 

Nobody can tell me how to look or how to dress if I’m comfortable with whatever I have on, whether or not it looks good to them or not, basically every fashion started from somewhere so why can’t I put on what I’m putting on how I’m putting it on? There are also the ‘bad belles’ the ones who say don’t do this or don’t do that, don’t dress this way or that, but they be quick to do exactly that thing once given the opening, they be quick to dress that way once they acquire such outfit. 

There are the holier than thou squad, the judgemental ones who deem it fit to share their opinion where it’s not needed. What exactly they are looking for on that platform    they wouldn’t face. 

You want to evangelize ? Do it to open minds, people who would welcome you, not force it.  

How I dress doesn’t mean you walk up to me and I say "Yes", you had better know that ladies, women dress however they want to please themselves than they do for the opposite sex. A woman wakes up feeling sexy, she dresses sexy, doesn’t mean she’s trying to lure a man or she’s trying to get approached. A woman decides she wants to be free and goes braless in an outfit that makes her as comfortable as can be, doesn’t make her a ho or desperate, doesn’t mean she’s thirsty, she may not even notice you even the slightest! 

She says "Don’t touch me!" Then don’t touch her, whether you meant it sexually or not, you have done something wrong. Not every girl likes to be touched especially if you are not really close. 

If you feel that the way a lady dresses is the way she should be approached then you are just as stagnant in life as a boulder. If the world is developing everyday and you have refused to widen your knowledge move past your horizon then you really have nothing tangible to offer or say. 

How i look doesn't define me

No you do not get to judge her, you are not her God, you are not in the position to! If she is sinning then you are too for judgement, hate, bitterness and rotten thoughts towards your fellow man, so please what makes you an angel? 

What makes you think you are better? She is an ‘ashewo’ because of her choice of clothing then what of your lingering eyes and impure thoughts? What of your quick hands ? You think you are justified? 

No if you are a man in this position, then you are a rotten sick perverted son of a gun! If you are a woman, you are just as bad. A good woman knows to mind her business and live as happily as she can doing that. Only a jobless, bitter woman with no good set of eyes would have issues with a person being themselves.

My Ladies Say This To Yourself

I refuse to be a societal puppet or doll. 

I refuse to let my confidence be sat on! 

I refuse to conform to o

a dwarfed personality.

I define myself, the world doesn’t define me.

  In this world, I have my own little world and I’ll rock the heck out of it. 
Word for 2019:
 DRINK WATER AND MIND YOUR BUSINESS

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Don't trample me with your hate.